Thank you for taking him away from me, even though you claim to have met him (what was it?) three weeks after I left him? It’s fine. I was leaving no matter what. But really, thank you, for he is no longer my problem.

You can deal with his mood swings and criticism. Although I doubt he gives as much to you as he did to e since you are his ideal body type and hair color. He never knew what to do with me and my big rack and red hair. It’s fine.

I was over him way before I left him. I was just wading through the inertia of that life that was preventing me from changing.

My life has improved ten fold since you caught his eye. I’m happier, I’ve finished college, I no longer have to live with his disapproval. I have love in my life now.

I have a good man. My children are safe from his constant criticism.

I’m sorry, he is your problem now. I often wonder if you are as happy as you say on FB or do you cry in the bathroom alone like I used to do?

Do you hide it from your kids, your family, like I did? Does he say the mean things to you too?

I hope not. I hate the idea of him doing to someone else what he did to me. I really do.

But thank you. You did me big favor and he is not my problem anymore.